The Divorce Litigation Process In Queens New York

The traditional litigation process has long been the most common approach used by lawyers over the past decades. However, it can often be the most stressful and the most expensive, especially if “go-for-the-throat” tactics are used by opposing attorneys. Teresa Ombres has a philosophy for litigation that draws on her experience as a mediator which helps to reach a divorce settlement that is more amicable and, often, less costly. Throughout the litigation process she strives to retain civility between the parties and the attorneys, encouraging them to use common sense and to cooperate by sharing information and fostering understanding.  This approach discourages the making of unreasonable demands and the use of expensive delaying tactics by the other side.  Of course, when these efforts fail to produce like-minded cooperation her preferred methods are counterbalanced by an ability to incorporate a more “get-tough” mode of dealing with situations that she feels are clearly intended to waste time and money or to take advantage of her clients.

 The Mediation Process for Divorce in Queens New York

The divorce mediation process involves the spouses meeting in a series of one or two hour sessions with a skilled mediator who will help them work together to reach agreement on all pertinent issues.  The mediator helps both parties understand the concerns of the other and, when conflicts arise, provides advice and encourages creativity in solving those problems.  

The mediation process is less stressful than litigation and the couple remains totally involved in all decision making that will affect the rest of their lives.  It is a process that keeps them in control rather than relying on the courts or a judge to decide important issues.

Teresa Ombres has received extensive training as a divorce mediator and is an accomplished practitioner.  She understands that a divorcing couple wants to get on with their lives and that they both have needs which must be met in order to move on.  She helps the individuals to see each other’s concerns and to compromise when necessary in order to arrive at a fair and acceptable agreement.  Divorce with dignity is always the ultimate goal.

The Collaborative Divorce Process in New York State

This process is comprised of the best elements of both mediation and litigation.  It is ideal for relationships in which an imbalance of power exists or when one of the individuals is uncomfortable making long term decisions because of their emotional state.  The collaborative process provides many of the benefits of mediation, but differs in that each spouse has expert attorney representation to protect their rights and interests.  

Like mediation, the process plays out in a conference room rather than in a courtroom.  Both parties, along with their lawyers, meet in a series of sessions to resolve issues in a respectful and honest manner without ever having to go to court.  Teresa Ombres is one of a growing number of progressive-thinking attorneys who have been trained in the collaborative field of divorce law.  It is a bridge between litigation and mediation that avoids excessive court costs, addresses the legitimate needs of each spouse and protects them from being taken advantage of.                

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